Author Russ Harris reveals that he has debunked some of the biggest marriage destroying myths in his new book 'ACT with Love' First of all, there is no such thing as 'the perfect partner' because even the best of partners will have qualities that we don't like, and will be missing some of the qualities that we would prefer to have. Believing that your partner will 'complete' you and have all the qualities that you lack yourself is also a far-fetched goal. Relying on the make believe 'power of true love' to sweep you and your partner past any difficulties in the relationship is also wrong because when two people spend a lot of time together conflict, arguments, and complications are bound to arise. Lastly, how you work through conflict with your partner will determine the strength, depth and longevity of your relationship rather than thought of everlasting love.Source: ANI << Study Suggests Fusion of Macrophages With Cancer Cells may ... British Designer Hopes to Develop Bio-Shoes That Repair The... >> Recommended Reading How to Save your marriage You can save your marriage - even when your partner insists on a divorce. READ MORE Divorce: Pros and Cons Divorce can be traumatic for children and create a sense of insecurity amongst them. Couples should realize that joined parenting is important even after divorce. READ MORE Infidelity Infidelity is no longer seen as a midlife crisis alone because younger people are beginning to cheat on their spouses READ MORE Is Life Better Staying Single or Getting Married? The stigma linked to staying single is gradually disappearing. More people opt to stay single and many even claim to be happier. But there are both advantages and disadvantages to staying single. READ MORE Most Popular on Medindia Vent Forte (Theophylline) Hearing Loss Calculator Calculate Ideal Weight for Infants More News on: Is Life Better Staying Single or Getting Married?