Having Attractive Wives And High-Status Husbands Enhance Marital Quality For Some

Maximizing men who had attractive wives were more satisfied compared to maximizing men who had less attractive partners; also, maximizing women who had high-status husbands had less decline in marital satisfaction over time compared to maximizing women who had low-status husbands, reveals a three-year-long study of newly-weds. The researchers aimed at analyzing the 'decision making' style a person make that would influence the satisfaction with his/her partner.

The research appears in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.

‘Maximizers are people who always look for best out of their partners and compare their partners' qualities with their peers, which often result in low marital satisfaction.’

"Maximizing people are constantly trying to obtain the very best outcomes in life," says lead author Juliana French (Florida State University). "For example, which is the best ice cream flavor? Which is the best song on the radio right now?"

"In the context of romantic relationships, maximizers are those who seek the best possible partner and who, over the course of their relationships, continue to compare their partners to other potential partners," says French. This could lead to overall lower satisfaction in maximizers' long-term relationships if their partners do not compare favorably to those alternatives on qualities that are important to them.

To test how maximizers might find happiness in their long-term relationships, the researchers studied 113 heterosexual newlywed couples in north Texas and 120 newlywed couples in north Florida. In both studies, people completed questionnaires assessing their marital satisfaction, tendencies to maximize when making decisions, and social status; additionally, the researchers obtained photographs of each spouse that they objectively coded for physical attractiveness.

They found that maximizers were more satisfied with their marriages if their partners possessed traits that were desirable to them--maximizing men were more satisfied if they had attractive wives, and maximizing women were more satisfied if they had high-status husbands. In contrast, satisficing men and women were similarly satisfied regardless of their partners' traits.

Making decisions about romance--for example, who to date and who to marry--are central to our lives and well-being.

What other aspects of relationship functioning are impacted by maximizing tendencies?

"We might find that maximizers take relationships slower than satisficers," speculates French. "For example, maximizers might take longer to decide to be exclusive with someone, to move in together, to get married, to have children together, and so on."

Source: Eurekalert

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