If you are finding yourself having less discussions with your partner or thinking of an extra-marital relationship, then it's time to consult a marriage counsellor, suggests an expert. Anil Sethi, a relationship counsellor and motivational speaker, has shared possibilities when you should seek a professional's help in your marriage. One of the most important indicators is communication between partners. Communication can be negative, stressful and disrespectful also. If there are no discussions between partners other than children, then that also means professional help is required. ‘When partners start keeping secrets with each other and you get to know about it, but don't know how to ask. You start going to bed angry and that results in no sex.’ If partners are getting attracted to others or thinking of extra-marital relations, that is a clear sign that they are no longer interested in each other. They have differences, but don't know how to fix it. When there are regular arguments and disagreements about issues. When partners are unable to adjust or respect each others' families. Women often dream of a fairy tale marriage and men also have some expectations. But when both or one of the partners find it different, that reduces their attachment to each other. Different opinions about parenting also can lead to differences among couples. It is found that good friends become good couples. Whenever you feel weak as a partner, friendship helps and you can discuss it. When this kind of a relationship starts missing, gap increases. An early intervention of experts can save the marriage. One of the basic requirements of any relationship is mutual respect and when respect for each other reduces, that can be sorted out with the help of a professional counsellor. When partners start keeping secrets with each other and you get to know about it, but don't know how to ask. You start going to bed angry and that results in no sex.Source: IANS << Cooking-Related Household Air Pollution and Blood Pressure ... While Choosing Partner, Older People Care Less About Educat... >> Recommended Reading Wherefore Most Men Cheat! Most men will always wind up adulterous even if they love their partners only to have more sex on their side, claims an American sociologist. READ MORE Extra-Marital Affair Could Improve Marriage? Yes, Says Survey Having an extra-marital affair could be just the thing to boost your mood and improve your marriage, a shocking new survey has found. READ MORE Poll: Men Who Drink 'Guinness' Likely To Have An Extra-Marital Affair A recent poll revealed that men, who like to drink Guinness, are most likely to have an extra-marital affair. READ MORE Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS) Find out more about the degenerative disease- Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. READ MORE Divorce: Pros and Cons Divorce can be traumatic for children and create a sense of insecurity amongst them. Couples should realize that joined parenting is important even after divorce. READ MORE How to Save your marriage You can save your marriage - even when your partner insists on a divorce. READ MORE Is Life Better Staying Single or Getting Married? The stigma linked to staying single is gradually disappearing. More people opt to stay single and many even claim to be happier. But there are both advantages and disadvantages to staying single. READ MORE Most Popular on Medindia Find a Hospital Color Blindness Calculator Indian Medical Journals More News on: How to Save your marriageAmyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS)Divorce: Pros and ConsIs Life Better Staying Single or Getting Married?