Willingness to bend and cede some power, and not admittance of guilt, could help calm majority of blow-ups between couples, a new study reveals.
Baylor psychologist Keith Sanford, Ph.D, said that giving up power comes in many forms, among them giving a partner more independence, admitting faults, showing respect and being willing to compromise.
AdvertisementIn another study, Sanford found that when people express anger, they often also feel sad. But while a partner will easily and immediately recognize expressions of anger, the spouse often will fail to notice the sadness.
He said that when it comes to perceiving emotion in a partner, anger trumps sadness.
Previous research has found that genuine expressions of sadness during a conflict can sometimes draw partners closer together, and it potentially can enable couples to break out of a climate of anger.
His research has been published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology.