All Men Do Not Want Sex All the Time

by Bidita Debnath on  September 9, 2013 at 9:37 PM General Health News   - G J E 4
It is hard to believe, but not all men want sex. Actually, some hardly want it at all, and apparently that's normal, according to the Daily Telegraph.

It's widely believed that men are always up for it, but a sex researcher reckons that men just can't say "no".
 All Men Do Not Want Sex All the Time
All Men Do Not Want Sex All the Time

Andrew Smiler, author of Challenging Casanova: Beyond the stereotype of promiscuous young male sexuality, says that men don't realise they can actually refuse sex.

He said that guys find it hard to say "no" because they're concerned about how the girl will respond, including concerns that she'll think he's either some type of wimp or gay.

Dr Smiler, former president of the Society for the Psychological Study of Men and Masculinity, recently wrote A Guy's Guide on When to Refuse Sex for the Good Men Project about when men should refuse sex with a new partner.

He said guys are often uninterested in sex if they're tired, sick or too drunk to perform sexually.

A recent survey for online pharmacy found 62 percent of men turn down sex more frequently than their female partner, with a third admitting they had lost their sex drive.

Another poll reveals one in four men no longer has sexual intercourse at all - and the figure rises to 42 per cent for men over 55 - while a quarter said they had been affected by erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives.

Source: ANI

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Well, you gotta love proof against those stereotypes. Another problem with guys saying no to sex is advice column responses. What I mean by that is if you ever find a column where a girl is wondering why her guy doesn't want to have sex, one of the reasons almost always is either because he's possibly cheating or is bored with her. As funny as it may sound, men are pressured by society to always wan sex otherwise they're not men. it's similar to how society pressures unrealistic looks on women.
ld115 Tuesday, September 10, 2013