Your Family And Friends Can Bring You More Happiness Than Partying
A study has found that happy people who are less outgoing, relied less on partying and drinking to be happy and more on connections with family and friends or cognitive strategies, such as positive thinking.
An Indiana University study compared strategies used by extroverted college students and their less socially inclined peers to reach to the conclusion.
"You don't have to go out and party to be happy. That's the thing students feel they need to do, particularly when they're new to campus," said Bernardo J. Carducci, director of the Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast.
"But, it's critical to maintain contacts with family, with friends and like-minded individuals with whom you feel some sort of meaningful connection. That could be other people in clubs that you belong to, like the accounting club, astronomy club . . . people you play intramural sports with," added Carducci.
A second study, also conducted by Carducci, found that college students who are goal-oriented also tend to be happier than their less focused peers.
"When you look at what these people do differently, people who strive to reach personal goals, they engage in more purposeful leisure, rather than sitting around and watching television," said Carducci.
"They don't go clubbing as much as the others. They spend more time on what we call spiritual reflection. They write in journals. These are the kinds of people who tend to be more happy. These also are the people who mostly graduate from college," added Carducci.
The study was discussed at the American Psychological Association's annual meeting.